Sex is GOD's gift to HIS creatures. HE endorses sex, but restricts its expression to those committed to each other in marriage. GOD wants sex to be motivated by love and commitment, not lust. It is for mutual pleasure, not selfish enjoyment. Because love is such a powerful expression of feeling and commitment between two people, it is not to be regarded casually. We are not to manipulate others into loving us and love should not be prematurely encouraged in a relationship. While romance keeps a marriage interesting, commitment keeps romance from dwindling away. The decision to commit yourself to your spouse alone begins at the marriage altar. It must be maintained day by day. The two lovers praise the beauty they see in each other. Our praise should not be limited to physical beauty; beautiful personality and moral purity should also be praised. Look for the qualities that don't fade with time~ spiritual commitment, integrity, sensitivity and sincerity.
Over time, feelings of loneliness, indifference and isolation may come about. During these times love can grow cold and barriers may be raised. Through careful communication, lovers can reconciled, commitment can be renewed and romance refreshed. Don't let walls come between you and your partner. Take care of problems while they are still small. (from the Life Application study bible) Man/woman marriages are honored by GOD. Any other marriages performed is man made. And will not be honored by GOD.
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